Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Adoption Part 4

I talked to our caseworker today because I needed to get some paperwork mailed to us.  It was not a very inspiring conversation.  She was nice, but the truth hurts sometimes.  She was wondering what age range Nathan and I were looking into as those who want to adopt young children are now on a waiting list that's pushing 5 years and she wanted us on that list as soon as possible if we were looking at that age.  We're not.  We're wanting school age and are trying to focus on the right child rather than the right age.  However, I just found out even that can take 3 years.  Now that is demoralizing.  Looks like I can be a nanny forever if I want.  :P  I think switching emphasis from the Georgia photo listing to the national one was probably the right idea.  I don't attach as easily, and it looks like if we want this to ever happen we might need a wider pool of possibilities.  Tomorrow is our second counselor visit, and our third appointment is already set up for the following week so we don't waste any more time.  Maybe we'll get good news there...Good morning to me!

3 comments:

  1. 3 YEARS, Seriously?!! :( It does sound like a good thing that you switched to the national list, though. Hoping that the counselor helps move things along more quickly now!

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  2. Oh, this is Michelle Tavares, BTW. :)

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  3. wow 3 years?! You'd think they would want to expedite the process to get these poor kids into loving homes right? I hope it is much sooner.

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